Just way too many of these arseholes today. STFU homo-homophobes.
If you want the freedom to be who you are you need to respect everyone elses freedom to do the same.
Some guys want to wear basketball shorts all the time, watch sports, go camping, and fuck dudes, then some other guys like shoe shopping, dancing, finger painting, and fucking dudes. Fundamentally there’s no difference.
If someone else being feminine and loving sparkles makes you feel uncomfortable you need to check yourself because you’re the one with the problem, not them. It takes way more courage for a boy to put on heels and lipstick and step out of his house and not apologize for who he is than it takes for you to sit there in your sports jersey and say you’re “straight acting”.
Or they just don’t like feminine guys the way some guys don’t like jocky girls. Instead of this long ass rant maybe check yourself before being a little cunt.
Check yourself for being a little cunt? Seriously? You said this?? Maybe you should think a little deeper on the issues that are raised here before vomiting out your ignorant bullshit. It’s all about use of language online, and how that language marginalises and discriminates. It’s not about “what you’re into” it’s about how you express what you’re into – in a positive way or in a way tha makes others feel like shit. You’ve missed the point entirely, and need to go back to school TODAY.
that* Also it is obvious this said person it talking about what he is more into. It’s like lesbians saying they don’t like Barbie types ect… OTake some of your own advice please.
There’s a difference between bashing a particular group of people and just outright telling people whatyou aren’t attracted to.
Don’t get so mad because they don’t fit your tastes or don’t enjoy the same things you do. You’re just as bad, if not worse.
Honestly…how is this different than saying “I don’t like blondes, people who like Twilight, or douchey guys.” It’s a personality type just like any other. Why attack and judge him when Im sure the ones attacking him aren’t attracted to every gay guy, masculine and “straight acting” or feminine and queeny. To each their own. He could have said it differently, but he didnt do anything wrong.
Also this is an extremely common thing. I know many guys that would never ever date an overly effeminate boy. And I know lesbians that would never date a butch. There’s nothing wrong with it.
There’s a lot that’s completely wrong with it. It’s internalised homophobia at its worst. You need to think about it more. There’s nothing wrong with dating who you want – I agree with you there. But to use the language of discrimination like this guy has, against HIS OWN KIND, is totally wrong. I suggest you look into “internalised homophobia” (google it or go to my site) because in my experience comments like yours just show a person who hasn’t really thought about it enough. Peace.