Firstly I agree with you. Way better to say “I want a white man” than to say “I don’t want an Asian”. So congratulations on being clever enough to read one of my posts and apply its logic. You deserve a medal. As for the “dancing around preferences” comment you made, I don’t care too much for that. For some people it’s just a pick-up app, and for others it’s their way of socialising in the non-Hetero world. Either way a person shouldn’t have to encounter racism and homophobia, even if YOU think it shouldn’t bother them.