LOL! I don’t know how you can “not be a shit person”! I guess it you’re worried you’re a shit person chances are you’re NOT a shit person OR you’re about to become a better person. I don’t know much about fetishisation which is why I don’t write about it. I might put up a Wikipedia article on it but I would be worried of offending people by writing about something I know little about. Gut reaction: I’d say it’s better for and Asian guy on Grindr to see GWM4GAM rather than NO ASIANS but again no Asian dudes have ever talked to me about it.