what is your ethnicity? are you black? i think you're doing a great thing by making this blog. all of the white homosexuals (or any other race) don't understand that them saying "no asians no blacks hot white boys only" really hurts but they'll tell you "NO IT'S A *PREFERENCE* STOP BEING SO SENSITIVE" but yeah i'm glad you're trying to get the word out and fix the discrimination in the gay community

Thank you! No I’m white and live in Australia. I’m just totally ashamed of the behaviour of the 99% of white people I’m forced to live with. It’s disgusting how they speak, and how unaware of their white privilege they always seem to be. It’s embarrassing for me that they refuse to even discuss the possibility that they may be racist or internally homophobic.

PS. Most people think I’m Asian or Black because they can’t conceptualise a white person being an ally to people of colour. Again, the fact they can’t conceptualise this doesn’t reflect badly on them, it reflects badly on white people because so few of them are aware of their own shitty behaviour and attitudes. 


This lovely white woman has been sent to jail for 21 weeks. Her only crime? BEING A RACIST WHITE ARSEHOLE. This story made me happy! The absolute highlights are where she shouts “AS LONG AS YOU’RE NOT CLAIMING BENEFITS” which is great because from the report below, she is now claiming benefits, having lost her job. The other highlight is the advert above her head that reads: “LOOKING FOR YOUR NEXT JOB?” HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!

A DRUNK passenger who hurled racist abuse at fellow travellers on a London underground train in a tirade that became an internet sensation has been jailed for 21 weeks.

Jacqueline Woodhouse, 42, launched an expletive-laden rant at passengers on the Central line, telling those seated near her: “I used to live in England and now I live in the United Nations.”

A seven-minute video of the verbal assault was uploaded to YouTube and viewed more than 200,000 times.

Condemning her showdown, District Judge Michael Snow at Westminster Magistrates’ Court in central London, said: “Anyone viewing it would feel a deep sense of shame that our citizens could be subject to such behaviour who may, as a consequence, believe that it secretly represents the views of other white people.”

Woodhouse was fined following a similar offence in 2008.

In the video of her latest foul-mouthed outburst, filmed by businessman Galbant Juttla, Woodhouse can be heard shouting in a thick Essex accent: “All f***ing foreign f***ing s***heads.”

The former secretary, of Romford, Essex, turns to other passengers and asks: “Where do you come from? Where do you come from? Where do you come from?

Prosecutor Claire Campbell said Woodhouse, who has since lost her job and is now claiming benefits, began her stream of abuse after a retirement party when she was feeling a little “worse for wear”. She had drunk an unknown quantity of champagne.

Woodhouse sat with her head bowed as CCTV footage of the prolonged rant between St Paul’s and Mile End stations was played to the court.

Heteronormative morality is NOT welcome here… Slut-shaming Grindr users

When I was younger I wanted a boyfriend who I could spend my life with. Just one guy, to share every experience and every thought and feeling with. Such a lovely dream, isn’t it? I never once questioned these desires – they were MINE! I thought of them, I wanted them, no one’s gonna tell me different. It’s only NATURAL, after all.

(Society nods in agreement – yes, a secure, loving monogamous relationship, ooohhhh yes yes yes, very good, did you know humans are one of the very few monogamous species on the planet, ooohhhh yes yes yes, monogamy, so healthy, so loving, the building blocks of a healthy society, oooohhhh yes yes yes…)

I’m 37 now, and even though I realized a while back that monogamy was in fact a social construct (a bullshit lie if you will) its still all I wanted. But finally, lately, I’ve started to imagine myself in relationships with men where sexual fidelity isn’t the top priority. And it feels…. Normal. Natural, even.

Back to Grindr, and the men who ab(use) it. One scan through the Grindr tags here on Tumblr and you will see men slut-shaming and carrying on about men they don’t think are attractive – fat men, older men, Asian men, Hispanic men, black men, effeminate men, etc.

If one of their dream “straight acting” men were to message them asking for a fuck, their legs would be sky high in a millisecond. But a guy that doesn’t fit their porno white ideal becomes the subject of ridicule and shame.

They don’t realise that the amount they shame the men they aren’t attracted to is directly proportionate to the amount of shame they feel about themselves. Self-assured individuals don’t slut-shame, fat-shame or race-shame. Their level of self-worth isnt related to how often they throw a tantrum about men they don’t like who find them attractive.

As usual it all boils down to this heteronormative condition all of us endure. If we can see this for what it is, a huge, socially constructed pile of horse-shit, we could start fulfilling our desires in a more natural, fulfilling manner.

Instead of waiting for THE ONE to come flying at us through our iPhone screens, and viciously making a mockery of anyone who doesn’t fit your narrow ideal (that was implanted onto you from birth), why not try thinking about who you are, minus your brainwashing. Because like it or not, the brainwashing is there, and we all have to deal with it.

If someone on the street paid you a compliment, you wouldn’t spit in their face, so why do you do it online? I know where the shame really sits.

The shame, silence, and fear which choked my father’s heart, turning his desire into violence, echo throughout society in a thousand ways, a thousand assaults on queerness and queer people. And yet so many queer men are rushing to embrace these forces, these images of masculinity, in their quest for normalcy, for the shining prize of recognition by a sexist society as “real men.” A deep fear arises within me at the sight of this; this is not a fear rooted in illusion but a clear-eyed fear. There is so much danger, so much harm, down this path.

Willow Aerin Fagan, My fear, the forces beneath, Why Are Faggots So Afraid Of Faggots?

The core ideal of masculinity is still the rigid, invulnerable man, always in control. This image has been taken up by gay culture, polished, worshiped in the form of glossy magazine images and hard, gleaming bodies. There is a perverse circle: the masculinity we lust after, which we seek as rescuer and lover, is the very same masculinity which appears in those who attempt to destroy us, in body and mind, soul and heart….There was the hard wall built between “masculine” and “feminine,” a border one could not cross without paying the toll of exile; the masculine prohibition on exhibiting vulnerability, or any emotion other than anger; the religious teaching of the divine right of fathers to set down unquestionable laws within their small, familial fiefdoms; the cutting up of communities and kinship networks into private, separate nuclear families.

Willow Aerin Fagan, My fear, the forces beneath, Why Are Faggots So Afraid Of Faggots?