So just a cursory glance at the Grindr tags on Tumblr and the overwhelming majority of posts are insecure 18-22 year olds bitching and moaning about “all the sluts” and “all the uglies” there.
Why don’t you little turds shut the fuck up? If you don’t want casual sex, no one is forcing you to have it. If you don’t want to talk to someone, no one is forcing you to do it. If you think someone is unattractive, no one is forcing you to have sex with them. You can simply ignore their messages, or block them.
Just because you are upset that your knight in shining armour hasn’t come to rescue you from your suburban, middle-American over-christianised heteronormative hell-holes, doesn’t mean you can slut-shame, body-shame, and age-shame members of your own community.
Grindr, and any other online dating site, is what you make of it. You can find friendships, love, sex, fetish-satisfaction, and anything else you want on there. Not everyone is going to be your taste.
So start behaving like decent humans instead of such childish, nasty fuck-faces. Otherwise, delete Grindr, find a girlfriend, a church, and a nice ignorant patch of society to settle down in, and piss off. SHEESH!