Firstly, the word is spelled “phenomena”. Secondly, this blog has over 1250 posts, and contained within them are as many reasons as you need. Thirdly, it sounds to me like your “group” might be a little confronted by this issue and has chosen to sweep it under the carpet. Fourthly, it amazes me how many people criticise but come up with absolutely no solution themselves – you say i am off the mark but you dont give any reasons why (not a single one). So instead of telling me to “come up with better justifications”, why dont you come up with specific and lucid reasons why im so wrong?
I think the uncomfortable truth of gay racists and homophobes has gotten to you. Judging from the overwhelming feedback I’ve received from gay men and people of colour, I would say far from being off the mark, I’ve hit it right in the centre.
Anyways, go to my page Gay School 101. You might find what you’re looking for there?