I stumbled upon your blog through a post about Grindr that had trickled it's way down to my dash, and I figured I'd check you out. I have read about the "preference" problem on the gay dating apps/sites being racist, but I haven't found anything relating to the solution. How do you think men should convey their preferences?

Hi, thanks for following! If you go to my Gay School 101 page on the left of the blog, you will probably find the answers there. If not write back to me. I know I’ve written about a solution a few times already.